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*Don’t Try Too Hard
And we mean this. This is why this is the number one on this list! Because it is so dang important to remember when you are trying to make somebody miss you. They are not going to miss you if you are constantly throwing yourself at them with attempts at revival. You want to let things happen naturally. Pushing too hard can, and probably will, drive her away instead of making her want to come back to you. You want to let her take things at her own pace. Forcing anything is never a good idea. There might be an air of resentment in the end if you do it too quickly. Or it might not give her enough time to really decide whether she wants to miss you or not. Just trust us: Don’t try too hard!!
*Play Hard To Get Instead
Instead of trying too hard, try hard at playing hard to get. We all know that this is a more effective way of getting someone to start missing you. When you put a little bit of distance, or even a lot, between you then it gives her time and space to realize what she is missing in the first place. If you are constantly around and chatting her up, she will not have any time to have that feeling of missing you from her life, because you will always be there! Stop picking up your phone each time that she texts or calls you. Make other plans, go out and be with other people. Although you want to make her your number priority, we suggest that you don’t do it! Let her know that there are other important things in your life. This will make her want to work harder at becoming your number one priority.
*Apologize If You Messed Up
Okay, so this tip might not be for every single situation, but it is a proven tip that works in one certain situation. That situation would be one where you did something really unforgiving or did something to upset her in some way. You will never get here to miss you if she is truly angered by some of your words or actions. A sincere apology might be the only route to go if this is the case. Why would she miss someone who hurt her and didn’t even say sorry for it? So get going on that apology letter, text or phone call. You would be surprised at how much a few simple words can be when it comes to these types of things.
*Make A Grand Gesture
If you did end up doing something awful to her that warrants an apology from you, you might want to consider also making a grand gesture towards her. Why? To show her that you actually care about her. She might have come to believe that the romance between the two of you is dead because of what you did. So now it is up to you to make her aware that the romance between you is very much alive. We suggest getting her flowers, her favorite gift or planning a major surprise for her. Of course you want to avoid going overboard. Don’t bombard her with these things! Just one, big, special gesture should do it!
*Don’t Blow Up Her Phone Or Social Media
Nothing says ‘crazy’ like becoming the annoying guy that starts constantly blowing up her phone. Whether through social media or text, repeatedly texting or calling her is always going to be a bad idea. It’s okay to indulge in a little bit of her social media. Like a thing here and there. But if you are always popping up she is going to assume you are probably stalking her. Lay low and keep things simple! Do not over do it. This will bring her to miss you more and more. She is going to find herself wishing you were liking more things or starting more conversation with her… Once you stop doing so in the first place.
*Look Your Best Self
You want to make sure that you are taking care of your appearance during this time that the two of you are apart. Looking like a mess is not going to bring her to miss you like crazy at all. Instead it is going to make her thankful that she isn’t around you. Hygiene, style and everything in between is important when it comes to trying to appeal to someone. No one wants someone that looks like a rugged mess, right? Right. So look your best! This is going to make her miss you more each and everyday. She’s going to find herself wanting to see this beautiful version of you sometime soon.
*Do Not Be Arrogant
Don’t get us wrong- A guy with a good level of confidence is always kind of hot! However, getting too cocky and letting your arrogance overwhelm her is going to be NO GOOD! Arrogance is not hot. Don’t ever forget that. Being humble will make her miss you more than being a complete jerk face because you don’t know how to stop hyping yourself up. Being this way can also bring her to believe that you care more about yourself than you do about her. This is no way to get her missing you. No way at all
*Do Not Be Angry
We know that you might be a little bitter that she is not focusing all of her attention on you or that the two of you aren’t vibing at the moment. We get it. But, and this is a big but, do not be angry at her. Lashing out at her is going to push her even farther away from you. Why would she miss someone who is going out his way to make her feel bad about herself? The answer: She won’t! She won’t miss someone like that at all. Instead she will find that she is grateful she, you, or both of you ended things with one another. Be nice. Being nice is the only option when it comes to this! Otherwise she will not miss you like crazy. That’s a fact!
*Do NOT Stalk Her
This isn’t some 80’s movie. Standing outside her window with 7 blasting above your head isn’t going to get you anywhere… Except maybe arrested. Planning run ins with her or always showing up where she is will also be a bad idea, my friend. We know that you might have the urge to see her when you can, but don’t do it. How is she ever going to find out if she misses you if you never go away? We know it’s blunt, but it’s the truth!
*Give Her Space If She Needs It
Can’t miss someone if they never left, now can we? Most definitely not. So give her space. This is super crucial advice when it comes to getting her to miss you like crazy! Especially if you have done something to her that has caused a very unhappy reaction. Giving her space will give her time to cool off or become less distressed with you. This will also give her time to think about what she wants. In this time, with the space you give her, she will be able to clearly think about whether she wants to give things another go or not. And if she doesn’t, then it just simply wasn’t meant to be
- Send Her A Gift
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