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People get into relationships, love each other, fight each other and go their separate ways and this is not how it is supposed to be. If you are getting into a relationship, you must know that a relationship will have love, happiness, sadness, fights and disagreements.
The unfortunate truth is that most relationships have a tendency to fail no matter how hard each partner works to make it a success.
1. Inability to resolve issues-
Every relationship has issues but when two parties can't resolve little issue, the relationship will die off.
2. Mistrust . Do you really think it’s wise to be with someone you can’t trust? Do we have to say more about this one?
3. Lack of effort in the relationship –
Both of you may be very busy and have lots of things going on in your lives. If that’s the case, you aren’t going to put forth a great effort to make the relationship work. This is going to lead to all sorts of problems. The best way to combat the lack of effort is to spend time with one another. By spending quality time with your partner, you’ll have no choice but to either become closer or move farther apart.
4. Expecting A Partner To Make You Happy-
Individuals need to take charge of their own happiness in life. Yet many people don't and they expect other things or other people, particularly romantic partners, to make them happy.
If you are relying on your girlfriend to fill an empty space then it won't work. You have to fill the empty space yourself.
Inevitably if you rely on a partner to make you happy they won't be able to live up to the task. This will cause friction and can eventually lead to a failed relationship.
5. Fault Finding-
We all have flaws. There is no way around that. The perfect partner is not a person without flaws, but a person with whom the flaws can be managed.
You need to be forgiving of each other in a relationship but that requires patience. When life gets stressful it's easy to forget to be patient and forgiving and to become demanding. At that stage the flaws can amplify and people can start to find fault with each other.
This can be a destructive cycle if it is not arrested and overcome.
Relationships don’t last these days because this generation doesn’t understand what it means to love someone madly. We are just too realistic for our own good and we don’t love madly anymore. No one is ready to be vulnerable by letting go of themselves. We have become too smart for ourselves and this is affecting our relationships today. We no longer want to be a fool for love.
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