5 Rope Bondage Sex Positions That Will Put You In Charge

While your main frame of reference about rope bondage might be Fifty Shades, the most important thing to know is that it requires a ton of trust—and that's what makes it so hot. Whether you're just looking to mix it up a little or want to go full-on dungeon master, here are some ways to get started. Note: these positions involve you doing the tyin', but can (and should!) be switched around.

1 The Hot Seat

Sit 'em in a straight-backed chair, tie each of their legs to the chair legs and their wrists behind them. Blindfold them so they'll be hyper-alert to whatever you chose to do with them. Some people like being teased with a feather or ice cube and your warm mouth. Others might want something rougher like a random slap or a whack on the thighs with a spatula. That parts for y'all to work out ahead of time with clear ground rules.

2 Tie Me Up Tie Me Down

Start them off easy with a single silk tie (you can buy special bondage ties or just use a plain ol' men's tie) to tie their wrists together over their head. Lie them on their back and mount them, telling them they are absolutely not allowed to move. Until you say so, anyway

3 On the Ropes

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Go a little deeper with rope bondage. (Safety first: Don't tie too tight. Have scissors on hand in case of a problem.) You can't ever communicate too much during bondage, so ask your partner along the way how things feel. They kneel with their face to the floor, butt in the air and their wrists tied to their ankles. Slide a finger into their bum and use the other hand to give them a lubey hand job. Make them beg for it first, of course.

4 The Mark

Never will someone be more at your mercy than when they are on their back and completely open to whatever is gonna go down. Have them (or hell, order them) to lie on their back and open their legs for you. Their arms go under their knees and hands on their outside ankles so you can bind their wrists to their ankles (there's bondage tape for the knot-challenge). This is traditionally a dude tying up a woman position, but you can flip it and make them watch as you touch yourself.

5 The Ravished

Have them lie on their back spread-eagle, attaching each limb to a corner of the bed (Use handcuffs attached to the head and foot boards, bondage tape wrapped around the mattress corners or an under the bed restraint system.) Once helpless, torture them with some infuriatingly slow oral.

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