‘I was trying to say that breaking a vow is worse than just casual s3x’ – IK Ogbonna defends his opinion on cheating

Reacting to backlash that came from his controversial opinion that it isn’t cheating when a married man/woman sleeps with another person without being emotionally attached, actor IK Ogbonna shared a selfie with wife Sonia on Instagram and wrote:

So normally I’ld see a post of myself and let it slide , but in this case I’ld address it coz it was represented in a way and manner that speaks contrary to everything I represent .

From my little understanding cheating (in general) is when someone acts dishonestly or unfairly in order to gain an advantage, especially in a game or examination or even a real life situation. IF YOU GOT TO HEAR THE FULL INTERVIEW (not only 20 sec of it) you would understand that I am NOT in support of men or women having s*x with other people aside the one the call their own . Firstly,s*x with anyone that’s not ur wife or husband a sin against God . However,I was trying to say that Breaking a vow is worse than an act we would refer to as cheating(just casual s*x), and when I say VOW I refer to a spiritual&emotional nut between two people.

The truth is, s*x in our age and time has been reduced to a recreational activity,and so sorry to say, has made it loose its value in so many ways because it’s easy to find and to get. As much as possible I preach that we should build self control and focus on one person but when we look at things from the rear view of reality having s*x without being emotionally attached to the person can slide as a casual event (still 100% wrong) and still means you disrespected your partner (in)directly,you hurt his/hers feelings and worst of all: break the trust that y’all were building for so long.

But in this case I was referring to people that invest emotions and feeling in some other person whilst their spouse falls into the disadvantage (wether you are having s*x or not). In this case the other person (your partner) suffers coz now you have to share your time , finance, and emotions that should be the sole rights of that one person you choose to build your life with. Bottom line,loyalty is a beautiful thing.

Source: Linda Ikeji’s blog

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